This is a fantastic site. Thanks! (I'm one of your lurkers)
Another GREAT one to support is www.anysoldier.com. It was started by the mother of a soldier. She always sent him care packages and he commented there were some soldiers who never received anything from home. So, they started sending packages to "any soldier." I lived for my care packages when I was stationed over-seas. I could not image going through that without my family's support.